Being Controlling is the unnecessary evil in the relationship
Communication is the most important thing in the relationship.
There are things in life that a man and woman can’t control. Like mother nature and reaction among other people, or simply reacting to what’s your spouse put up out there. On the other hand, there are things that each of us can take control. Such as; your reaction to the stimuli and how to conduct yourself and to communicate the things that you have the control over.
Every couple has one common problem. And that is – COMMUNICATION.
Everyone suck at it!
The other person always has this thing to OVER-COMMUNICATE!
But details aren’t other people’s forte.
But due to the nature and the outcome of our every fights, arguments, frustrations and whatever adjectives that get us to fighting – over communication is always the best thing.
So what’s stopping us?
Our HEAD!
It’s all over in our head that it’s just stays in the head.
Well, many things …
1. when words were too much and The other person wi break down – the words that comes out were never encouraging. It’s hurtful, vengeful and absolutely, downright evil.
2. We know that when we don’t communicate, it gets through the other person who wants clear communication in the relationship.
3. the list could go on and on…
But you see, we love our partner so communication is a thing.
So what’s stopping us from communicating?
Usually, it’s ourselves.
ME, I believe!
I pray he won’t stop loving me.
His love is the only thing that holds us.
Our marriage. Our life. Our little family. And ours together.
He is an extra-ordinary person. If people could see him through my eyes. People would say – stop being an immature and GROW up!
You see, my husband’s flaws are too many. One, too kind. Two, too trusting. Three, too loving. Four, too serving. Five, it could go on….
And six, anything I’ve asked – he would dive right in.
But why I’m doing this to him? Is it being a woman? or being his wife? Or just being me.
Okay, I said too many words. But there’s one thing that I know that could improve our relationship.
To communicate better. Clearer and happier. Or to just not say nothing when things were written all over my face.
I so hope that I would get pass through this!
