Believe it; he’s not really that into you.

If he was, he would make every effort to be with you.

Maybe, it’s time to rethink this area of your life. Don’t make excuses for someone who doesn’t prioritize you. When the road is made of thorns, bushes, rocks, and even lava exploding in all directions, it’s a clear sign. If you keep walking down that path, you will get burned, and you know what they say about being burned? You’ll get toasted.

Okay, kidding aside.

If he really is into you, here’s what he will do: One, he will call you. Two, he’ll text you! Three, he will find ways to be with you.

If he’s doing the opposite, you get the message. Red flags will be waving at you, screaming, “Ah, get the picture?” Don’t be that person who makes excuses like, “Maybe he’s too busy. I should give him more time.” He will make every effort to stay away from you.

Consider these signs: One, no calls for a month! Two, no texts. Three, no messages at all. Four, he’s posting pictures of himself having fun with free beers and smiling on social media.

You have to move on. Stop constantly checking your phone for his call or message. Cut the crap and enjoy your life. Do yourself a favor and make new friends. The person who didn’t leave you a message isn’t that into you. This is true, and before your heart gets totally broken, move on! He’s not that into you; crap happens to everyone. The right guy will come to you just when you’re living your life to the fullest. If you haven’t started living yet, start now. Don’t make excuses for this person like, “Ah, he is just shy. Ah, maybe he’s too busy.” Don’t even think about him, and please erase him from your vocabulary. The signs are written all over the wind. This type of guy will only text you when it’s convenient for him. He is not considerate about your feelings and doesn’t care whom you hang out with.

The problem with us women is that we tend to daydream about this type of guy and keep wishing until our head is in the clouds. The only person that can stop this is you. So make an effort to get yourself out there and start enjoying your life.

Now, enough of my preaching. Tell me you’re totally getting yourself out of the situation.

How about that, huh?

Here are a few more things to consider:

• He doesn’t make plans: If he’s always vague about future plans or cancels on you last minute, it’s a sign he’s not prioritizing your time together.
  He doesn’t introduce you to his friends or family: A guy who is genuinely interested will want you to be a part of his life and meet the people important to him.
• He keeps conversations superficial: If he’s not interested in getting to know the real you or sharing about himself, he’s likely not invested in a deeper connection.
• He’s inconsistent: If his attention and affection come and go without reason, he’s probably not serious about the relationship.
• He doesn’t respect your boundaries: A guy who cares about you will respect your boundaries and needs. If he’s dismissive or pushy, it’s a major red flag.
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All factors considered, you may need some tools to grow his interest in you. I’m just saying, but could it be him or you? Or the situation you both are facing?

Well, come to think of it!

Ultimately, remember that you deserve someone who is excited to be with you, who makes you feel valued and appreciated. Don’t settle for anything less. The right person will come along when you are living your life to the fullest, not waiting around for someone else to make you happy. So get out there, enjoy yourself, and let the right guy find you when the time is right.